I feel like the last few months should've been titled The Fall of the Abuser.
It seems since October rolled around (interesting coined Domestic Violence Month) abuse after abuse stories have been rolling out. It's also needs to be noted that October is shared by Libra (relationships) and Scorpio Season (hidden motives, power, dominance). Then throw Sagittarius season in there with that good ole Jupiter energy, we're getting an overflow of exposure.
October was also a month that held two eclipses, one in the sign of Taurus (relationships) and the other was in the sign of Libra (relationships). I believe these eclipses shed a brighter light on the war within relationships and it's going to continue to intensify over the next 6 months.
But if you've been connected with me for a while then you know that eclipse energy last for 6 months.
May 5th of this year we had an eclipse in the sign of Scorpio (hidden motives, power, obsession). Look where we are now in November with the headlines in the news and within our communities.
All this basically means is, if there is war energy present in your relationships, you'll be spiritually prompted to stand up for yourself. War isn't only subject to be physical and I think that's how a lot abuse gets overlooked and swept under the rug. War requires strategy and a mental spar to spiritually break down a being. Most abusive relationships are mentally abusive and spiritually draining before it even elevates to the physical.
Not to mention abuse can cause fragments of the aura to be dispersed along with holes. Holes create leaks and the abuser feeds off what isn't shielded, enclosed or protected. Which is why people in abusive relationships or reside in environments where they're not being honored tend to feel constantly fatigued as if they can never feel energized. Abuse feeds off being an unhealthy host of dominant energy.
Abuse check in questions:
Are you being loved properly?
Are you being spoken to with respect?
Are you being recognized and honored?
Are your boundaries in place?
Are you the draining in your relationships or giving too much to them?
How is your mental state in your closest relationships?
Are you emotionally secure?
Is your physical or mental wellness being compromised?
Do you have to tip-toe in your relationships so the other person doesn't get upset?
Can you fully be yourself?
As always protect yourself and if you're in an unsafe situation (physically, emotionally or mentally) then start to gather your resources to get the fuck out)
Resources can be anything from therapy to a restraining order. Just know that you're mental and physical well-being matters.
If you've ever experienced any type of abuse, I hope that you've taken the steps to get back to some sense of norm and do some energy work to clear some of that imprint out of your energy field. Never be afraid to take your power back and flex your magic on those that tried to cause harm to you. If you need any guidance on taking steps to clear your energy from abuse, feel free to hit me up.
Resources can be anything from therapy to a restraining order. Just know that you're mental and physical well-being matters.
If you've ever experienced any type of abuse, I hope that you've taken the steps to get back to some sense of norm and do some energy work to clear some of that imprint out of your energy field. Never be afraid to take your power back and flex your magic on those that tried to cause harm to you. If you need any guidance on taking steps to clear your energy from abuse, feel free to hit me up.
National Domestic Hotline Site: Domestic Violence Support | National Domestic Violence Hotline (thehotline.org)
Telephone: 18007997233
If all else fails, call 911.
